8 Real Reasons Women Pick Fights With The Men They Love

• Women don’t always have to fight for something. Women can fight about anything.
• Every woman has started that fight whereby the middle of it, she can’t turn back — no matter how stupid and ridiculous she knows it to be. The real reasons women pick fights with the men they love are endless and could be about anything.

• That fight about how you’re not attracted to her anymore because you said you were tired, or how you should have known what she was thinking — if you loved her you would have known.

• Yes, women know how delusional they sound. They get it. But they can’t help how they feel. they’re emotional and tied to their gut.

• If your girlfriend is constantly picking fights, know that it’s because she’s picking up on something. It might not be about your messy room or your innocent comment about how tired you are, but it’s there, tied to something bigger.

• Women pick fights because they can’t figure out what they’re really upset about.

• Or they’re trying not to admit what they’re really upset about, trying to push it under the rug, only to let it come seeping out in tiny, insignificant, dirty moments.

• They’re as ashamed as anyone about these moments. Men may forgive them, but the guilt women carry around is punishment enough.

• The only thing worse than being out of their mind is knowing they’re losing it.

• To see it pouring out, even though they promised themself 10 times that day that they wouldn’t bring it up — to say that one thing they told themself that they wouldn't say.

• It’s their biggest downfall and worst flaw. It’s the one thing women try to control but always lose. So men should just try and forgive them.

• Here are some potential reasons why women keep wondering: Why do I pick fights with my man? Because she’s thinking about it while fighting too.

1. Because They’re Bored

• If it weren’t for women, there’d be no flavor in the relationship. They stir the pot, add some spice and give it that extra heat that’s sometimes too hot to enjoy. They can’t help it. They like excitement and drama. They like to bring things to their boiling point.

2. Because Make-Up Sex Is The Best

3. Because Things Are Going Too Well

• Sometimes it’s easier to find things to blame on men than on themselves. They’re creatures of self-sabotage, and if they’re not trying to hurt men, they’re just after themselves. They have the habit of refusing to accept a good thing and only looking for the one bad thing that may or may not even be there. They want to kill the relationship before it has the chance to kill men.

4. Because Women Like To See How Far They Can Push Him

• Women love to test the waters, see how far men’ll go but at what point men’ll stop. Every woman likes to gauge how far her man will go for her — and how far he won't. They like men to go certain lengths but have enough self-respect to know when to tell them off. Every woman sets her own standards, and the only way to see his score is to pass him the exam.

5. Because He’s Refusing To Address Anything

• Women’re prone to picking at small things when man refuses to address the big thing. Whether they had a fight over something that was never resolved or he doesn’t see what they’re really upset about, they’ll tear at everything around it until there’s nothing left but the cold, naked truth of the real problem and a huge mess surrounding it.

6. Because Women Care

• Part of caring is trying to kindly point out the things women do that might not be the healthiest. Mothers do it, grandmothers do it and girlfriends do it. They pick because men won’t. Women notice little things because they love men, and loving men means noticing everything, but sometimes, women might get out of control and start to pick at things that aren’t necessary, from the way men brush their teeth too loudly to the way they fold their shirts. Women just want to make mens life better and in return, take themselves out of it.

7. Because They’ve Played The Chill Girl For So Long, They Just Explode

• The hardest thing about being chill is not burning up from the inside. It’s hard to keep the temperature cool when they’re breathing fire. It’s hard to be that cool girl when all they can see is red. But we try. They try for his sake and the sake of the relationship. They try because he doesn’t know what it’s like to be a woman, to care about things he’ll never notice. They try because they want to be perfect. Unfortunately, they can only be chill for so long until they just turn cold.

8. Because They Know He’ll Forgive Them

• He’s the one person they can unload on. He’s the only one who can take their sh*t and move on like nothing happened. He’s their sounding board, their therapist. And he’ll still be there when they’re irrational and neurotic.