- The extraordinary Soul Mate and Twin Flame encounters, makes one feel as if they have just arrived at a temple. They have been given access to the Divine. As they enter the room where the holy of holies resides, they can sense the spark of the Almighty deep within each other.
- If a man / woman breaks your heart, see it as a sign that you still haven’t learnt how to love yourself the right way. Men are catalysts to women’s TRUE self love and sensual awakening.
- Gentlemen / Ladies, the real battle that you are fighting isn’t for sexual market value, it’s to awaken to your true sensual calling and purpose.
- Gentlemen / Ladies, this is how you know you have arrived, when you’ve learnt how to love yourself enough to attract the love that you know you deserve.
- All the unseen forces. All the nurturing energy given forth from women, through the generations, given to the land, to the harvest. To the sky and the Earth. All the gentle love – that no one sees, yet that feeds every life from plant to roaming creature. Our world would die without positive, flowing feminine and masculine energies. Our world would die from thirst, parched and brittle if it never accepted the warm, feminine winds and the nurturing ocean of the feminine force.
- Healing the Divine Masculine and Sacred Feminine within oneself is a deeply personal and transformative journey. Here are some practices and approaches that may help:
For Healing the Divine Masculine:
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Self-Reflection and Awareness:
- Reflect on your understanding of the Divine Masculine. Identify both positive and challenging aspects.
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Releasing Limiting Beliefs:
- Identify and release any limiting beliefs or societal conditioning related to masculinity. Allow yourself to redefine what it means to embody the Divine Masculine.
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Cultivating Strength and Compassion:
- Embrace qualities associated with the Divine Masculine, such as strength, courage, and assertiveness. Balance these with compassion, empathy, and vulnerability.
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Mindful Action:
- Practice mindfulness in your actions. Be intentional and aware of the impact your actions may have on yourself and others.
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Connection to Purpose:
- Explore and connect with your sense of purpose. Understand what drives and motivates you in life.
For Healing the Sacred Feminine:
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Self-Nurturing Practices:
- Engage in practices that nurture your well-being, such as self-care routines, meditation, or spending time in nature.
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Emotional Expression:
- Allow yourself to express a full range of emotions without judgment. Embrace vulnerability and see it as a source of strength.
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Cultivating Intuition:
- Develop and trust your intuition. Listen to your inner voice and honor your feelings and instincts.
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Creative Expression:
- Engage in creative activities that allow you to express your authentic self. This could be through art, writing, dance, or any form of creative expression.
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Embracing Sensuality:
- Reconnect with your sensual side, acknowledging and embracing the beauty of your body and the sensory experiences of life.
For Balancing Both:
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Inner Harmony:
- Work towards creating inner harmony by acknowledging and integrating both masculine and feminine energies within yourself.
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Mind-Body Connection:
- Explore practices that foster a strong mind-body connection, such as yoga, tai chi, or breathwork.
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Relationship Dynamics:
- Cultivate balanced and healthy dynamics in your relationships. Be aware of power imbalances and strive for equality and mutual respect.
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Healing from Past Wounds:
- Work on healing any past wounds related to gender, relationships, or self-worth. Seek support if needed, through therapy or counseling.
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Sacred Practices:
- Engage in practices that are considered sacred to you. This might involve rituals, ceremonies, or traditions that resonate with your spiritual and emotional growth.
Remember, healing is a continuous process, and it's okay to seek support from professionals or communities that align with your values and goals. The key is to approach this journey with openness, self-compassion, and a commitment to personal growth.
What Is Divine Masculine
The Divine Masculine is a concept often associated with spiritual and psychological frameworks, representing certain qualities or energies typically attributed to masculinity. It's important to note that these qualities aren't exclusive to men but are regarded as archetypal expressions that can manifest in any individual, regardless of gender.
The Divine Masculine encompasses a range of positive attributes and energies, such as:
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Strength and Courage: The ability to exhibit inner strength, courage, and resilience in the face of challenges.
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Assertiveness and Action: Taking decisive action, setting boundaries, and being assertive in pursuing goals or causes.
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Logic and Reasoning: Embracing logical thinking, analytical skills, and a rational approach to problem-solving.
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Protector and Provider: The inclination to protect and provide support for oneself, loved ones, or communities.
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Leadership and Guidance: Possessing qualities of leadership, offering guidance, and inspiring others through vision and direction.
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Stability and Consistency: Maintaining emotional stability, dependability, and a sense of consistency in one's actions.
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Spiritual Connection: Nurturing a deep spiritual connection, seeking higher wisdom, and understanding one's role in the larger context of life.
It's important to emphasize that the Divine Masculine isn't about dominance or control but rather about embracing these qualities in a balanced, compassionate, and respectful manner. Integrating the Divine Masculine within oneself involves recognizing and honoring these qualities while acknowledging and valuing the Divine Feminine aspects as well, as both energies are complementary and interconnected. Achieving a harmonious balance of these energies within oneself is often considered conducive to personal growth, spiritual development, and healthy relationships.
What Is Sacred Feminine
The Sacred Feminine represents a spiritual and archetypal aspect associated with feminine energies, qualities, and attributes that are revered, respected, and honored in various cultures and spiritual traditions.
The concept of the Sacred Feminine embodies a range of positive qualities, including:
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Nurturing and Compassion: Embracing nurturing qualities, empathy, and compassion towards oneself and others.
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Intuition and Wisdom: Valuing intuition, emotional intelligence, and inner wisdom as sources of guidance and understanding.
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Creativity and Expression: Celebrating creativity, artistic expression, and the ability to birth new ideas, projects, or life experiences.
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Sensuality and Connection to Nature: Acknowledging the beauty of sensuality, the connection to nature, and the cycles of life and creation.
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Collaboration and Community: Emphasizing collaboration, cooperation, and creating harmonious communities based on mutual support and understanding.
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Emotional Depth and Healing: Recognizing the importance of emotional depth, embracing emotions, and facilitating healing processes.
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Spiritual Nourishment: Cultivating a spiritual connection with oneself, others, and the divine, often associated with themes of nurturing, growth, and transformation.
The Sacred Feminine doesn't exclusively relate to women but encompasses a spectrum of energies that exist within individuals, irrespective of gender. It's about honoring and integrating these qualities into one's life to foster personal growth, self-awareness, and a balanced approach to relationships and the world.
Balancing the Sacred Feminine with the Divine Masculine energies within oneself is often seen as beneficial for achieving a sense of harmony, holistic understanding, and spiritual growth. This integration allows individuals to honor and appreciate both the feminine and masculine aspects within, fostering a deeper connection to oneself and the world around them.
Healing the divine masculine and sacred feminine: Inner union, inner marriage.
- When our divine masculine and sacred feminine don’t trust one another, both of their essences dim, and they become imprisoned to some degree. From there, they will both act out in various wounded ways controlling our lives in ways that can be hard to understand.
- Healing the sacred feminine requires us to heal the wounds between the divine masculine and feminine inside of ourselves. This is inner union. This is inner marriage.
- Healing our relationship with men and women is part of this journey as well. Though masculine and feminine do not equate to male and female, there is an overlap, there is weaving, and it’s important to keep this in consideration as you examine this relationship within yourself and see how this reflection is mirrored in the rest of your life.
- We may have been victimized by toxic masculinity, empathize with that victimization, and feel incredibly uncomfortable embodying the masculine because we associate it with a predator.
- Or we may become passive and docile in our feminine nature for self-preservation, or overly identify with the masculine and harden, because we fear being victimized, demeaned, or rejected for embodying the sacred feminine.
- We may also have experienced being victimized by the dark feminine and therefore lose all trust in sisterhood, and lose all trust in the sacred feminine - in ourselves and in others.
- We must remember these two sacred parts that make a whole - deep in our bones, and deep in the collective bones of life. The divine masculine and sacred feminine depend on one another. We must remember them as the lovers that they are - as one another’s confidant, holding space for one another, striving for the other to thrive.
The divine masculine needs to be trusted
- The divine masculine needs to be trusted in its assertion, and disciplined action - not feared that it’s abusive, or doing harm. The sacred feminine’s felt sense, heart-centered wisdom must be trusted, cherished, and honored - not feared that it’s invaluable or weak.
- Sometimes women are victimized by toxic masculinity, or toxic femininity and both can severe her sense of safety to embrace the sacred feminine within herself. Both are abusive and will trigger the feminine to lash out or be submissive in different ways.
- The wounded feminine in women can come in varying personas. She can show up as the victim - docile, and dainty, or the people-pleasing, accommodating woman. She can get lost in the role of the martyr or the healer, always leaving herself last, always sacrificing herself in what feels like a sense of honorable duty.
- She may struggle to tap into healthy anger, aggression, or assertion. And if she does tap into the fierce warrior it’s often only for the sake of others or a great cause. Or she may overly embody the ferocity in a toxic way as a defense mechanism to keep others at a distance to protect her heart.
- She may appear as the manipulative woman who abuses her sacred feminine power, exploiting her sexuality, innocence, charm, and nurturance to get what she wants. Everything she does is stated as unconditional, but there are always ulterior motives.
- Then there is the woman who disconnects from her sacred feminine nature altogether. She numbs it, disconnects from her feelings, and plays the role of easy-going, never stating any major needs. She may play off everything as nonchalant, and not even realize she is longing more.
- A sense of safety with the divine masculine within ourselves gives us the courage to embrace our sacred feminine power. It gives us the sense of safety to embody our full selves.
- When we feel timid in our feminine power, we play small. We may not even realize we are doing it. We may get so stuck in our heads simply trying to accept ourselves that we don’t realize we have created a life that offers no support in honor of our truth.
- We’ll completely miss the foundational building blocks needed to pursue our dreams because we can’t find our footing in our truth. We haven’t spoken our truth, we haven’t’ claimed relationships that honor our truth, or encourage our sacred feminine power to come out of hiding.
- The divine masculine assures the validity of the sacred feminine’s intuitive wisdom and inner guidance and offers the structure to guide it into manifest. It offers the energetic affirmation that one’s truth aside from all logic is valid. When we honor this energy in ourselves, we attract people with this energy into our lives.
- When we are stuck in a state of wavering, disempowered timidness, we don’t ask for what we need. We don’t claim our boundaries. We are afraid we won’t be good enough and we retract instead of claiming the big energy that we are. We fear shining and shining is what enables us to make things happen. We question our worthiness to shine. We question how people will react to us shining. And therefore attract people who are also afraid of us shining because they are afraid to shine themselves.
- The lack of belief in one’s self and one’s truth is truly debilitating. The sacred feminine needs the divine masculine to make sure this center does not waver. We need this in ourselves, and we need this in the people we surround ourselves with.
- The divine masculine within us affirms that we need to shine. The divine masculine holds space for us to shine. The divine masculine does everything in its power to build a life that supports the sacred feminine’s power to thrive. This is a sacred union ship within yourself. This is being deeply in love with your own self, having your own back.
- As powerful women in honor of sacred feminine energy, we have to dream big. Our courage has to override our fear when it comes to failing, rejection, and doubt. And we need the divine masculine to harness the container that helps us root into where the divine is guiding us to manifest.
- The sacred feminine works with the unseen world, the heart space, and energy, and when reclaiming this energy we have to teach ourselves how to really ground it. We are conduits for the divine and this is our great service. To listen to the wisdom, and callings coming through and bring them to life.
- We have to teach ourselves how to follow our heart, how to follow the call of the divine, and to channel this effectively. We have to learn how to dance between these two sacred energies of feminine and masculine for ourselves and the collective.
- Whether you are lacking the fierceness or softness of the feminine, tending your relationship between the divine masculine and sacred feminine within, and examining your relationships between men, and women will guide you on a path to bring balance. It will guide you on a path of reclaiming your personal power.
- How we embody these energies within ourselves may be argued with nature versus nurture and ultimately it doesn’t matter. But it is helpful to open our eyes culturally to see where we’ve been programmed and to look at our first role models and unravel what they taught us through their own embodiment.
- Masculine and feminine are not a direct translation of male and female, but we see how men and women reject or embrace feminine and masculine energy regarding what the world has taught us is acceptable and safe.
- When you were a child what was your first impression of what it meant to be a man or woman? What did you think masculine and feminine each meant? How did your parents reject or embrace the masculine and feminine in their wounded and divine states, and in themselves and in one another?
- Our experiences have the opportunity to vastly affect us in different ways regarding what we’ll accept within ourselves and what we reject fiercely without even realizing it. Our experiences have the power to subconsciously shape us and then we attract similar energies that resonate making it harder to see that patterns we are stuck in that don’t serve us.
- What kind of men and women are you drawn to in your life today? Do they embrace or reject their sacred feminine nature? Do they harness their divine masculine power or fail to succeed in channeling their divine feminine energy and intuitive wisdom into manifest?
- How do the people in your life mirror your weaknesses or show you the strength you are striving for? Our weaknesses are comfortable and it can feel safe to surround ourselves with people who have the same resonance but it’s empowering to also surround ourselves with those who have harnessed types of energy that we have yet to embody. We need to seek the role models we long for and show ourselves it’s possible.
- When the divine masculine is rooted with a pure heart-centered, sacred feminine nature, its assertion, disciplined action, and healthy aggression are pure. It’s not threatening. It’s not disrespectful, it’s not abusive or overpowering. It’s of integrity.
- When the sacred feminine is rooted with the ability to be assertive, hold her ground with healthy aggression when needed, the intuitive nature has the freedom to flow wildly, without wasted energy on hypervigilance or fear of being safe or valid. She’s grounded in her magic.
- When either the masculine or feminine is acting out - or taking on a persona in defensiveness, (or on the offense with a motive) there is a wound. Track it. Tend the wounds. We all have them. We all have them.
- Our ability to thrive is dependent on this relationship, this union. We can’t live half-heartedly and experience the depths of love a relationship is capable of, we can’t live half-heartedly and accomplish the dreams that we long for, or experience life in its full spectrum of beauty.
- We can heal the sacred feminine all we want, but it still cannot come into its full feminine power when it fears the masculine, when it fears men or women, or when it fears its own safety or validity to be. Tending this relationship is a crucial part of the container we need to come home to ourselves. If we don’t have peace with the polarities within and around us, we’ll never receive the blessings of their power united.